Anonymous asked: do you have any tips on what to do if you're having sex for the first time for a girl, like i've heard that it hurts the first time, how much? and is there anything you can recommend like the best positions or what to do afterwards. thank you <3

Firstly; Always pee before and after (mostly after) to stop the risk of cystitis.

If you’ve previously masturbated or your partner has done so for you, then sex wont be to bad.
But it does vary from person to person. (For instance for me I had no pain but I know some people find it difficult)

Missionary is good for starting, because the guy can’t get too deep and also being on top can be useful because then you’re in control of the depth. However, don’t just drop yourself down on him, because it’s likely to hurt you.

I know it doesn’t sound very fun, but take things slowly and test the waters, you may find you’re a lot more ready than you think and that’s when you can have a bit more fun.

After, if you have baby wipes or even face wipes, just give yourselves a once over. You can always shower later.

It’s just so not a good idea.

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Vampires. I don’t like hairy men.

Anonymous asked: due to me losing weight so fast and my body shrinking i've developed these horrid shrink marks. they seriously haunt me, i don't even want to look at myself. is there any was to get rid of these? do other people find these as hideous as i do?

Anything with cocoa butter in it!
And… there is this Dove body wash, that has it in. And it really works quite fast.
I think at first, everyone is turned off by them. But.. I’ve had mine for years and I just ignore them. And… No one i’ve ever been intimate with has had an issue with them.

Anonymous asked: To whom do /you/ turn to when you need advice or just a rant? xoxo

I don’t really have someone.
I really need someone right now. :’(

Anonymous asked: Thank you so much for helping! He's an idiot, but I do like him! :')

All boys are. :)
My pleasure darling.

Anonymous asked: Hi! I'm anon from earlier, with the ''He doesn't want a relationship!'' Well, we're going to the Fair together, and I'm not sure it's a second date? He told his friend that he 'doesn't know if he likes me'' but it's apparently because too many people were meddling and he wants to keep it on the down low? I'm not sure what's going on anymore! :(

Godness me, he sounds like a handful.
But.. the fact that he’s not goneall awkward and ignoring you is a good sign. He still enjoys your company and spending time with you.
He is at least giving it a chance, by not ruling it out completely.
Just make sure you don’t get your hopes up, because boys aren’t always aware of the damage something simple can do.

Anonymous asked: A guy apparently asked my friend for casual sex and I'm thinking about it. Does it make me a slag? x

No.. I mean, as long as you don’t go mental and start humping everything. But having a intimate relationship with a friend or even 3, that’s perfectly fine.
And as long as you’re happy, who cares?

Anonymous asked: Hi! I'm 13 an had my period last November and I have only had it 3 times since then. Is this normal? And thanks sooo much!

Yeah, I mean, you’re still quite young. It’s likely that it’ll be a little rocky but it’ll sort itself out. It’s just one of the weird mysteries of puberty.
It can also be affected by some of the activities you do. For instance periods are very unscheduled in gymnasts, dancers and house riders.